9 Powerful Life Lessons From Studying with a Monk
2012 06 15

By Robert Piper | Docakilah.wordpress.com



When I was 18 years old, I suffered from anxiety and stomach problems. A compassionate physician and practicing Buddhist referred me to a Taoist monk who specialized in meditation and martial arts. I ended up healing myself of anxiety and stomach issues by doing meditation, and went on a great journey of self-discovery.

Here are 9 lessons I learned while studying with a monk:

1. Keep trying until you get it right.

The most important life lesson I learned was trying something three times (maybe even four times) before you stop trying and move on. Also, this monk taught me that, even after multiple tries, you should work on different angles to approach things that are difficult.

If you keep trying, youíll eventually get where youíre going.

2. The answer to your question is inside of you.

As part of the original monastery training, a monk didnít answer direct questions from a student unless it was a well thought-out question. A Chinese proverb says, ďTeachers open the door, but you must enter by yourself.Ē

Some forms of Zen Buddhism use a very similar style of training. An old saying (by Taoist monks) goes like this: ďIn making a four corner table, the teacher shows the student how to make one corner. Itís the studentís job to figure out how to make the other three.Ē

They did this because they were preparing a student to deal effectively with problems in the real world.

I traveled to South Korea one time, and I found it fascinating how much you have to rely on your intuition when you donít speak the native language of a country. I remember one instance, I had trouble explaining to the cab driver where my hotel was, and he didnít speak English. So I had to get out of the cab and ask several people until I could find someone to tell the cab driver in Korean how to get to my hotel.

In life, whenever we try new things, we have to go into new places with only a small amount of information. The real world doesnít give us all the answers. The greatest teacher is inside of us.

3. Real wisdom in life comes from doing something and failing.

Prior to starting meditation, I used to get upset when Iíd try something and fail.

Iíve been in sales since I was sixteen. I remember going to work and getting so angry with myself because I didnít get a sale. If I ever got rejected, Iíd get upset with myself, and Iíd want to quit my job. But I just keep failing over and overóuntil I became good at it.

I remember, when I first started doing meditation, I ran into several problems. For example, at first it was difficult to calm down; but if you stick with it, its gets easier and easier. I tried for only a few minutes, and then every day, I added more time onto my meditation.

When we struggle, we learn about ourselves and what we need to do to become stronger.


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